2021.09.21 00:26 Outside_Animal_8168 How to Move on?
Hi Reddit Community,
I am new to this, so please spare me some slack if this is the wrong subreddit, etc.
I am reaching out today, because I am struggling to handle a breakup. My fiancé of 2.5 years broke up with me earlier this summer (about three months ago). I was madly in love with him the day we broke up. It caught me off guard, and pushed me into a very very dark place.
For context, he broke up with before I was about to shower, and I had to live out of a laundry basket for weeks after my sister picked me up at like 11p.m. on a Monday night.
His reasoning was that he was not happy, and could not make me happy. Except, I was happy, and only ever cared and loved for him. Not more than two weeks later, he was visiting a girl in CO, making me feel like he was likely cheating on me. I don't really care if he was or was not because it is over, but it still hurts.
Ultimately, I am okay with the breakup. I do not think he was motivated or had the same goals as me. I also think he was potentially unhappy with himself and projected this on to me. However, he was my best friend, undoubtedly. And I of course admit I am not perfect, I am sure that at times I was not the best. For context, I am in a doctorate program, and the last year has been stressful for me academically.
I begged him to go to therapy, and he would not go. I have not spoken to him since, other than a few meetings with our realtor. He has also said some extremely hurtful things in the moments we have spoken, somewhat suggesting he never even loved me.
In the process of this breakup, we had to sell our house, I lost a dog to him, and honestly, it has just been brutal. I still am dealing with issues from our wedding, and just feel reminded of him constantly.
Ultimately, I just want to know when it gets better? What did you do to make it better?
How do I trust someone again?
Thanks Reddit, if anything it just felt nice to share this.
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2021.09.21 00:26 Bulgarian-Barbarian Hi everyone, meet Scout!
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2021.09.21 00:26 bordermessie-on-edge The *Bonk* - The german evening post for apes
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2021.09.21 00:26 Nice_Lie_731 Tell me everything about american heavies around 7.0
2021.09.21 00:26 HighOnBonerPills The best approach to EQ – when to cut and when to boost
Hey! I know there are many beginners on here, so I wanted to clear up a common EQ myth. I've often heard people things like, "Cut to make it sound better; boost to make it sound different." This is complete nonsense.
When you filter a track to give it a lo-fi flavor, are you not making it sound "different"? If you boost ~100 Hz to beef up a kick drum, are you not making it sound "better"?
I came across a great video from the Slate vlog that addresses this perfectly. His approach is this:
2021.09.21 00:26 anotherasexualegg kinda feel like i'm walking on eggshells and need advice
Good news: did a lot of self reflection and tried on (the closest approximation of) women's clothing, and while i'm used to being amab, presenting as female makes me a whole lot happier and i can actually look myself in the eye in a mirror.
Bad news: currently in the military on a new duty station and won't be able to get out for 3 years or so, and my branch has a long history of antiLGBT+
So...... yeah. any advice would be greatly appreciated.
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2021.09.21 00:26 Wall_ie On a rewatch of Season 2 episode 1: Nate messes up the idiom 'Pressure makes diamonds' as 'Pressure makes pearls.' Foreshadowing!
On a rewatch of Season 2 episode 1: Nate messes up the idiom 'Pressure makes diamonds' as 'Pressure makes pearls.' Potentially foreshadowing his 'Wunder kid' moment from later in the season. He's also wearing a tie and starting to be aggressive towards the new kit man. The writing in this show is just so good!
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2021.09.21 00:26 magnoilia What are some good TV shows from the 1960's?
2021.09.21 00:26 ToadysLife Jhin, the Virtuoso // corrected version now with more fours, maybe you like it more ^-^
2021.09.21 00:26 cheapandbrittle Cheap lazy vegan meets cast iron! I finally picked up a small pan and I only regret not doing it sooner because it is seriously amazing. Any tips for a complete cast iron noob?
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2021.09.21 00:26 drew-careymore Any idea who this feather may have come from? Arm for scale, about 10 inches long (I am tall) found in eastern Massachusetts
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2021.09.21 00:26 troy-- Help with breeding
So I'm obviously new to breeding, but something that I'm confused about is from what I understand the parents points into certain attributes carries over to the baby (correct me if I'm wrong please) and some of these are randomly assigned when you originally tame said parent. Past that is it worth leveling it to the full 70 additional levels I believe or if you get a tame with a good amount on points into the desired attributes should you just start breeding? Thank you for bearing with someone who is new and quite confused
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2021.09.21 00:26 CarlosTapatio Good horror movie shirt designs?
Title. Any online stores or artists that sell a variety of good horror movie shirt designs? like designs that actually have effort put into them and look cool. lmk!
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2021.09.21 00:26 SnooPandas8774 Blitzkrieg: Hearts Of Steel Recruitment
(Also heres a ideology tooser cause why not)
Blitzkrieg: Hearts Of Steel, is a new overhaul mod for HOI4 that aims to strike a balance between historical overhauls like BlackIce and vanilla overhaul mods like RT56.
Starting in 1932, it seeks to add several redone and expanded focus trees for majors and minors alike, that are detailed with both Historical and Ahistorical paths, to also overhaul the tech tree, to add hundreds of flavour and historical events, and add unique and much needed mechanics to the game, such as a balanced economy mechanic, a overhauled political/government system with new ideologies for better political game play.
This mod ultimately seeks to remake HOI4 into what it should have been.
We are currently looking for researchers, content planners and rriters the most at the moment, although devs in other areas are welcome too.
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2021.09.21 00:26 EdgarWinters Forgot to add the cilantro - no good?
Just made a double batch using this recipe and got distracted trying to potty train my new puppy. Completely forgot to add the cilantro. They’re processing in the bath now, straight to the fridge or am I ok?
Guess I can just add some fresh when I use them if they’re fine to store on the shelf
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2021.09.21 00:26 gosty_the_brave Qui c'est qui as un problème avec la boisson ? C'est nous!
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2021.09.21 00:26 sleepycatinarayofsun Late 30s female looking for something…
Poppy, poetic maybe? a bit contemporary, nonfiction, gritty, psychology driven and perhaps a bit romantic? I prefer audiobooks. I usually listen to nonfiction but feel like digging into something a bit fun.
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2021.09.21 00:26 Mindless-Bed-8334 These images look like Scrum Debates dont they? Except the last one.
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2021.09.21 00:26 MemeyGamer0 i wanted to do one of these, feel free to argue
2021.09.21 00:26 dirrtyremixes Lui Flores, Brenda M. - What Do You Mean [GST052]
2021.09.21 00:26 user19373 [WTS] BNIB Omega Seamaster Diver 300M Co‑Axial Chronometer 41 mm Ref #22.214.171.124.01.003
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2021.09.21 00:26 shitonthepackers X-Post from detroitlions : Fuck the Packers.
2021.09.21 00:26 enough0729 Got two birdies today. Name suggestions?
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2021.09.21 00:26 xElbyy MEETING CELEBRITIES IN FORTNITE
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2021.09.21 00:26 rileyroo277 Cursed_homework
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