Should my roommate’s girlfriend start paying rent?

2022.01.17 14:23 sonicmonkeys Should my roommate’s girlfriend start paying rent?

My roommates and I live in a pretty expensive area near a major metropolitan city here in the US. For privacy sakes, let’s name them Michael and John. I’ve known Michael since high school and we’ve been best friends ever since, so I have no issues with him. I’ve known John since college and he’s been a good roommate for most of our time living together.
However, John has started dating this girl, Amanda, these past couple of months. In the beginning, all was good. Even though she lives 45 minutes away, they were balancing their time between each other’s places. However, Michael and I have started to notice the past month or so that it’s become completely lopsided lately. Now, they exclusively hang out at our place and it’s honestly starting to bother us.
It’s bothering us because they have a schedule where she is over from Wednesday evening to Monday morning. When she’s over, John becomes complacent and doesn’t contribute to the housekeeping of our place. Dishes don’t get done and he starts putting his trash bags outside his door, thinking that we are going to always take his trash out for him.
More recently, Amanda has been bringing her cat, which is not allowed according to our lease and must be approved by our landlord, which hasn’t been done. Instead of running it by us first, Amanda has been sneaking her cat via his bathroom door. It concerns us because we don’t think he’s being considerate of us and any of our own guests that may have cat allergies. She has also been staying here by herself lately while he’s at work.
Michael and I think Amanda is controlling and toxic. She’s in college, but doesn’t have a job and her parents pay everything for her. When John hung with us at a brewery for a boys night, she got upset that she wasn’t invited and that he wasn’t home, so she could come over. For Michael’s birthday, he was supposed to come with us to the festivities. He pregamed with us and when he went to ask her if she wanted to come, he texted us saying that “her friends screwed her over and that she needed him”. We of course didn’t believe that excuse one bit. He only goes out when she wants to and she has to be involved in every social move.
We recently addressed our concerns to him, but it was his response that has us concerned that he’s not actually going to do anything about this. He argues that “she doesn’t use the common spaces, stays in his room, and uses the utilities that he pays for each month”. When we talked to him about her staying over by herself the first time we noticed, he said that it was because they got home late from their trip and she was tired. However, I noticed today that she is here again by herself while he’s at work, so we’re not really sure what his excuse would be this time.
Since we’ve seen an uptick in utility costs since she’s been around, is it inconsiderate of us to ask her to start chipping in for rent and utilities? When he wasn’t dating this girl, he’s been a good roommate and a fun guy to be around. However, these past couple of months have allowed us to reconsider whether we want to renew with him again. Any advice would be greatly appreciate it.
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I'm so relieved to have a more accurate diagnosis. I've been seeing a great therapist for ~6 months and I have told her all my asperger's symptoms - i don't check a lot of boxes, but the ones i do are absolutely overwhelming and nightmarish.
Turns out my biggest issues are the ones related to sounds, smells, sense of direction, coordination, textures, tastes and visual stimuli.
I am basically horribly affected by 'normal' things, i feel nauseated, get very bad depression episodes and my migraine is triggered (over some loud music or stuff like that).
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I can't function if i'm physically uncomfortable, accessories and many types of fabric feel horrible on my body.
I feel extreme pain when i get hurt, even if it's just a scratch or something that should be trivial.
I hate feeling wet after showering, but i also hate feeling dirty or sweaty.
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I can't go 2 days without taking out the trash or washing the dishes without feeling an unbearable nausea from the smell.
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I often start hating a perfume i used to like because it seems super strong and overwhelming now.
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Like most girls with ADHD, in the spectrum or with SPD, i gave my best to mimick acceptable behaviors from 'normal' people, so i only got my actual diagnosis at 28. I suffered through horrible stimuli because i thought i just had to bear with it until i somehow got used like other people.

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