2022.01.19 20:53 kitty-the-witch My (28/F) boyfriend (27/M) has been growing more distant after going through some things but I found out he was spending time with his ex.
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a little over a year, we were best friends prior for probably four years before we both discovered we had feelings for each other. So we know each other pretty well and have always worked through things as a team and have a ton of communication about stuff.
Recently he was having rough time, he got his hours cut at work and there has been issues with his dad's health that has him stressed out. We live about three hours away from each other, but I offered to come stay and help him get through things or even told him he could come stay with me and get back on his feet. He declined both options because he didn't want to strap me financially which I respected, but left the options on the table for him.
He hasn't been talking to me as much or answering his phone due to being busy with balancing things. I drop him a text every two days to check in with him. This past Saturday I offered to visit and have a movie night, cook dinner for him and just have a relaxing night. He again declined and said he wasn't in the right headspace. I respected his need for space and let it slide again.
Last night I drove over after I got done with work to drop off a crock pot of his favorite meal, called before arriving and he didn't answer. When I got to his place I noticed his ex-girlfriends car parked next to his and when I got to his apartment I heard them talking inside, so I just turned around and went home.
I texted him this morning and told him I loved and missed him and hope he's okay, he said that he has been dealing with more drama and was depressed about everything going on since his dad is in the hospital.
I didn't and haven't brought anything up. I'm starting to get those uneasy jittery feelings and my anxiety is through the roof. I don't want to overreact, I've even tried to rationalize this in my mind that there's a perfect explanation for everything. I'm hurting though and the lack of communication hurts more because I'm getting the cold shoulder and he's acting like a completely different person.
I'm not sure how to approach the situation, I'm not even sure how to bring it up to him with how he's acting. I'm scared that my mind is getting the best of me and I'm making mountains out of mole hills...but I feel like I'm not getting the entire truth about things either.
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2022.01.19 20:53 Llllwooo111 My sweet cat, you've been gone for half a year, I miss you so much, every time you run to the garbage heap, I cry every day thinking of you, oh my God, why let me lose you.😭😭😭
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2022.01.19 20:53 Sincethedawnoftime86 [Ps4] [DSR] [Summon] [I will help w bosses] [SL 20 -any up to 406] I will help with any bosses just lmk 🌞 \[T]/ praise the sun gamers!
2022.01.19 20:53 sassyburnsowner Sassyburns Roclle Bubbler and rose bowl, me , 2022
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2022.01.19 20:53 sirisMoore Liberal (possible excessive) use of the uncommon trait
So I had an idea for a game in which all non-ancestry feats and all spells gain the uncommon trait. Each player starts with a mentor several levels above them. The character initially has access to all feats/spells their mentor has. In order to gain any other feats/spells, including archetype feats (Free Archetype is a thing but you can choose not to fill the slot until later), the character must find a way to access them via NPCs or their fellow party members or through locations/items (book of martial forms, spell books, fighting school, etc).
I want to embrace a ‘quest for it’, player-driven, emergent story mentality.
I understand that this is likely going to be unpopular. My question is, what do you think?
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2022.01.19 20:53 hisradianceonreddit Rawhide es maravilloso | Devil may cry 5 (not mine)
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2022.01.19 20:53 ena9219 MiiSuda 1
2022.01.19 20:53 PythonVillage Can someone share the full unabridged highlight of the last few minutes of stoppage + celebrations?
2022.01.19 20:53 jewmoney808 Water chiller sat unused for a little over 1 year. I can hear water sloshing around in there. Going to start using it again. Would it be ok to run a heavy bleach solution through to flush out old, stagnant water? Any recommendations appreciated thank you all 🙏
2022.01.19 20:53 sophie_130902 Should I? (Quick please, the person is waiting)
2022.01.19 20:53 Tristem0 need help with tmod loader
how do i do a factory reset of my tmod loader files, for some reason whenever i try to make a new character or play an old one the game says no files found or smth like that. i have never gone into the files so i know i didnt delete anything. could someone please help
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2022.01.19 20:53 elevatedsystems These Framework Laptop Mods Show Us Exactly Why Modular Computers Are So Damn Cool
2022.01.19 20:53 newlab1 Celebration Of Apocalypse Now
I took a bunch of gummies and tripped my balls off; I was dancing to The Doors for an hour or so; felt everything.
Then I got it in my mind to watch Apocalypse Now!
I couldnt help but be struck by the subtle and striking similarities with Celebration Of The Lizard.
First, you have to understand that Celebration is about Jim wanting the audience to make him a GOD- an icon- the Lizard King.
If Celebration Of The Lizard was made into a movie; it would basically be Apocalypse Now! You and I are Martin Sheen and we are on a quest to see Jim- who is Marlon Brando’s character.
Brando essentially made himself a Demi-God and Sheen has to go eliminate him; but most people who go become a follower of Brando.
When the boat shows up to Brando’s territory; it is the mansion at the top of hill. The people with the arrows; hill dwellers.
At the end of the movie (where THE ENDis played and so fourth) is the “We came down…” part of Celebration.
Ultimately, Brando wanted to die. Because in death he would be infinite and forever. Brando was THE LIZARD KING.
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2022.01.19 20:53 Kaykrs [Gaming News] PixelPlay Podcast | Episode 50 X-Bought | a weekly podcast that covers all the news and rumours in gaming | This week we discuss the implications of Xbox buying Activision and E3 being cancelled| NSFW (some swearing). Link in comments
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2022.01.19 20:53 fervazesc Bailey the pigeon murderer.
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2022.01.19 20:53 Classic-Survey-4913 the dreaded 'gap' problem
Windows 64, shut off all 'windows Ink', problem in both PS/Clip Studio.
Cintiq 27" (non-touch). Searched forums and haven't found this exact problem....any idea what I can do? Would new pen fix it?
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2022.01.19 20:53 odinskind 3 tries, 3 no summits for me on Chimborazo, but 3 amazing experiences
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2022.01.19 20:53 Same-Row-4665 ESMA Top Executive: The EU Should Ban Proof-of-Work Mining
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2022.01.19 20:53 osmoselash Live Miku Songs on Spotify
Some of Miku's most popular songs (World is Mine, Romeo and Cinderella, The Disappearance of Hatsune Miku, and a few more) are available on Spotify, but they're all the live versions from either MIKUNOPOLUS or HATSUNE MIKU EXPO 2014. Is there a reason why? I want to be able to listen to these songs in their original format on the platform. I never understood why artists upload live versions of their songs instead of the original format that they're in... wouldn't it be better for the audience to listen to a higher quality version of the song anyway? Don't get me wrong I'm glad the songs are on Spotify but I just don't understand why they upload the live version for these songs specifically.
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2022.01.19 20:53 MRTHUNDERSPANK How hard is too hard when strumming my guitar?
Im a beginner and just learned my first song that requires more than a couple chord changes and I get really into the music. Sometimes I think I’m strumming a bit too hard, how hard is too hard? Lol
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2022.01.19 20:53 yipsraj313 Abby Rao
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2022.01.19 20:53 criptolivros Melhores criptomoedas para investir hoje - Istoé Dinheiro
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2022.01.19 20:53 Afraid_Tree949 This is cool right?
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2022.01.19 20:53 Soft-Landscape-5210 Are Maxell CD-Rs good for burning Dreamcast games on?
So I have a container of CD-Rs and most of them are made by Maxell. So I want to know if Maxell CD-Rs good for burning Dreamcast games on.
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